What the hell made you want to become a sexologist?! I get asked this regularly and it’s a very difficult question to answer simply. When I was a young girl with hopes and dreams for my future, I could never have imagined that I would choose this path. It has been an interesting and fulfilling … Continue reading My Journey from Nurse to Sexologist
I am coming up to 9 weeks of my celibacy journey and felt it was about time I shared another update on how the experience has been for me. I have been experiencing so much emotionally within this journey and with so much happening, it is often difficult to put into words. It’s been an … Continue reading Claiming the Virgin within
I love sex. My whole life seems to centre around it. I work as a Sexologist and as a Sex Educator in and Adult Lifestyle Centre, all my personal growth work is sexuality focused. Lots of my friends are sex workers and work in the sex industry in some capacity. Oh and too top it off, … Continue reading My Conscious Celibacy Journey
"Can you see how much pain I am in? Do you know how much I am suffering? Do you understand how hard my life is!?" the victim cries out, begging to be acknowledged. If only my suffering could truly be known, if only someone would really see how hard this life is for me, then … Continue reading What will it take to end victim consciousness?
I don’t believe that any other two words in the English language could be more open to interpretation and misunderstanding than masculine and feminine. Most people think masculine means male and feminine female, with this true to some degree however it goes a lot deeper than this in the world of Tantra. When I initially … Continue reading Getting To Know Our Inner Man & Woman
Today I am going to discuss something I feel incredibly passionate about, something that I feel is important for all people to have awareness around and that is sexuality and relationship education for young people. It is no secret that there exists a huge lack in the sex and relationship education that is provided to … Continue reading Sex Education in Australia: Ready to make a difference
The female body is nature’s most exquisite creation, with the intricate curves, lumps and bumps of a woman’s form making up a beautiful masterpiece of juiciness. A woman’s vulva is the seat of her femininity, reminiscent to numerous landscapes and objects we find in nature. From flowers and fruit, to caves and trees, female genitalia … Continue reading How do I care for my pussy?
Today we have physiotherapists to help us get our body back into shape after an injury. We have psychologists and counsellors to talk about any worries and concerns in our lives. We go to the doctor if something in our bodies is troubling us, with a great deal of attention placed on our physical health, … Continue reading Why would anyone see a Sexual Healer?
Unless you have been living under a rock somewhere in outer space, you will have noticed the prevalence of “female empowerment" in mainstream media. The revelations against some powerful figures in the entertainment industry followed by the #metoo campaign appeared to be the start of a dramatic shift for women in 2017, with huge stands … Continue reading Man-Hating Disguised As Female Empowerment
Over the past year I have been faced with the profound realisation time and time again that a life lacking in love for myself is not a life I have any desire to live. I can have money, relationships, opportunities to see the world and perceived "success", yet if I cannot look at myself in the mirror … Continue reading A new understanding of self-love