Sexual fantasies involving multiple people are one of the most common fantasies for both men and women. I used to believe that only few people ever ventured into group sex territory and that it was a thing that happened behind closed doors at the end of a dark alley way-guarded by vicious werewolves of course. I … Continue reading How To Have A Threesome, Foursome or Moresome…
Babe, darling, love, honey, sweetie, boo, diamond, sweetheart, beloved, god/goddess – the list of pet names in relationships goes on and on. Names such as these are often said in an affectionate way, with most of them a little corny and cute if nothing else. Some names however can cause a bit more of a … Continue reading Who’s your Daddy?
With so much comparison & judgement of female bodies in our society, it is no wonder that the root of our femininity could not be saved. Women’s vulvas & vaginas have become another part of the body to scrutinise, to the point where young women are undergoing irreversible procedures to change the way they look. … Continue reading The Tragic Consequences of Pussy Shame
Does anybody remember the Sex & the City episode where Samantha is sleeping with a man who has, as she so eloquently puts it, “the funkiest tasting spunk?” Or the scene in There’s Something About Mary where Ben Stiller’s character has his semen dangling from his ear when met to go on a date with Cameron Diaz … Continue reading Get Your Juices Flowing
What the hell made you want to become a sexologist?! I get asked this regularly and it’s a very difficult question to answer simply. When I was a young girl with hopes and dreams for my future, I could never have imagined that I would choose this path. It has been an interesting and fulfilling … Continue reading My Journey from Nurse to Sexologist
I am coming up to 9 weeks of my celibacy journey and felt it was about time I shared another update on how the experience has been for me. I have been experiencing so much emotionally within this journey and with so much happening, it is often difficult to put into words. It’s been an … Continue reading Claiming the Virgin within
I love sex. My whole life seems to centre around it. I work as a Sexologist and as a Sex Educator in and Adult Lifestyle Centre, all my personal growth work is sexuality focused. Lots of my friends are sex workers and work in the sex industry in some capacity. Oh and too top it off, … Continue reading My Conscious Celibacy Journey
"Can you see how much pain I am in? Do you know how much I am suffering? Do you understand how hard my life is!?" the victim cries out, begging to be acknowledged. If only my suffering could truly be known, if only someone would really see how hard this life is for me, then … Continue reading What will it take to end victim consciousness?
I don’t believe that any other two words in the English language could be more open to interpretation and misunderstanding than masculine and feminine. Most people think masculine means male and feminine female, with this true to some degree however it goes a lot deeper than this in the world of Tantra. When I initially … Continue reading Getting To Know Our Inner Man & Woman
Today I am going to discuss something I feel incredibly passionate about, something that I feel is important for all people to have awareness around and that is sexuality and relationship education for young people. It is no secret that there exists a huge lack in the sex and relationship education that is provided to … Continue reading Sex Education in Australia: Ready to make a difference